There really is, only a fine line between being nice to everyone & being mean on purpose, also means being sly, always having something up one's sleeves all the time. A fine line between being nice & having two faces! & If being nice actually makes others feel dippreciated, one logical advice.
Learn to balance & feel others from different different angles. OR not, the mean way, disregard the ones that your loved ones don't feel happy about.
Honestly, i think the second advice works better. I'd loved that, quite much. Thats why they call me the 'sombong' one but if you ask me, i really don't mean it. I just had to do it, or i missed you out, somehow. Because you see, if i'm being nice, you'll see that i'm reaaaally nice. All the nice things you can think of, i've done most of that. Out of the many, IT IS because of the many that my loved ones felt that it was dumb of me.
I'm handling this alone, so preaching on me about my decisions, just makes me dislike you. Much. Help, or ignore. =) Nevertheless, these are still the people that i need. Just these few that i'd cry to lose one of them.
: Jamie Victoria Guna. : Muhammad Insan. : Bukhari Abdul Jalil. : Liqi, Lilin, Lok, Shaun, Vinod, Tian. : Joy Rouge & Vishalini.
Thus, too nice is awesome! Too nice is also risky & sort of a suicide, in some ways too. So how?
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